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TMS Info\How to Cure TMS
FYI: I've just moved the TMS info from the old Premier site
over to this one. Pretty soon I'll go through and edit/update this
stuff, but for now I'll just leave it all the way it was.
In order to cure this syndrome,
you must go as far back in the chain of events as possible and treat the
root cause. Conventional treatments might go back a step or
two--pain relievers treat the physical symptoms, massage or ultrasound
treatments address the physiological changes--but they don't address the
root cause.
In order to completely eliminate
all symptoms, you must identify which unacceptable emotions are
threatening your self-image. The
physical symptoms are present for a reason: They distract your
attention away from the
unacceptable emotions. Once you acknowledge the
threatening emotions, the symptoms no longer work as a distraction, and
they go away. Quite dramatically, I might add. You don't even
need to eliminate the source of the stress--you just have to become aware
of it. Since we're talking about unconscious emotions, they might not immediately be
apparent. Recognizing them might take some work. A daily
meditation period, during which you take time to notice all the
thoughts and feelings that float through your head, is a very beneficial
practice. And try making a list of expectations, or requirements,
that you have for yourself, and see which of those requirements are being
threatened by your current situation. Very often, we require life to
be fair. "I'm a good person, I deserve good things to happen to
me." Unfortunately, life is rarely fair, and it can become a
source of intense anger.
You also have to completely believe in
the TMS diagnosis. That means that you have to completely accept
the fact that your symptoms are emotionally induced. If you still
believe that there may be something physically or structurally
"wrong" with you, you're not yet "cured." You're
not paying attention to the underlying emotions, which means that the
symptoms can still work as a distraction, and it's likely that they will
return. It's also
important to completely resume your normal activities. If you're
still afraid to sit in a soft chair or pick up your kids or bend over to
tie your shoes, you're not "cured" yet, either. As long as
you're living in fear of another attack, the physical symptoms still have
your attention, and chances are good that they'll
return.
Many people can eliminate their symptoms
simply by reading one of Dr. Sarno's books. Some people need a
little more help. If reading his book doesn't "cure" you,
there are a few other options:
- Check out other information
resources. Understanding and completely
accepting the TMS diagnosis and treatment approach is crucial.
It helps to have these ideas reinforced by several sources. You can listen to the
RealAudio samples we have on
our site. You can purchase The MindBody Workbook
from Dr.
David Schechter's website or from Amazon.com.
- If possible, see an MD who is trained to
diagnose and treat TMS. If you live in the New York area, see
Dr. Sarno. If you live in the Los Angeles area, see Dr.
Schechter. Check out the Directory
for TMS physicians in your area.
- Sometimes it's necessary to meet with a
psychotherapist. As I mentioned before, it's not always easy to
make unconscious emotions become conscious. A skilled therapist can be
a big help. When looking for a therapist, try to find someone who is
analytically trained, since they are specifically trained to deal with
the unconscious mind.
- Feel free to discuss your
experiences with others on our message
board. Support groups can be helpful
sometimes, but they can also become
a bit of a wallowing ground, especially on the internet (as mentioned
in Step 4). If you
decide to peruse the support newsgroups for fibromyalgia, chronic
pain, etc., please do not let their posts dash your hopes for
recovery.
- Be patient, be persistent, and be kind
to yourself. Nosing around in your unconscious mind can be very
uncomfortable. Some people are not quite ready for this
approach, which is understandable, considering the current state of
western medicine. Don't beat yourself up if you don't
immediately find relief. But please don't throw in the
towel. I assure you that Dr. Sarno's method works.
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Full-blown Syndrome
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